Sharing DOUBLES the Sorrow !

Our sorrows reduce by Sharing. I defy !!!

No, I am not getting the concept wrong. I have developed my own understanding of it. I believe to be pretty right on the fact that dukh baantne se kam NAHI hota, badhta hi hai. All those times we are sharing our depression, misery, heartache or any problem with anyone, we are unintentionally increasing it. By so Much negative discussion, we might be passing on the gloominess to the others.

True, it feels very light and relaxing after puking out every hurting and painful thing but what about those who are listening to all our crap? I have done this, now I know how irritating I must have been to those who've been tolerating my continuous complaints, cribbing cries over the same things every time. Damn, I was such a pain. 

While the person is crying over what he's going through, they hardly realize how frequently they're doing it. Repeatedly complaining over the same topic every time might help the mental level of the victim but becomes torture to those who are listening to it. Salute to all those figures of patience who handle this!!! We go to those we love to dump our sad times and sorrows on them but are we doing right to them? We are simply doubling the sorrows because we are already suffering and now dumping it on others as well.

Also, one should never at all sing the poor status of their health to those around them because, why doing so? Telling others you are not well is fine but mentioning every single health issue of yours every single time is complete nonsense. People, please don't do it until asked. It is nobody's business. In fact, now I feel that I fall Ill by listening to other's illnesses. All this negativity is so infectious.

There is this girl in my office who never forgets to mention how deficient she is on hemoglobin or how many iron injections she is taking or how dehydrated she is for the pimples n dry lips OR even her being anemic. You've told this all once, twice, hundreds of times and now we have learned the sequence of your telling as well. For heaven's sake don't mention it all while you are at the lunch table. What annoys the most is that despite being a bouquet of Health issues she's body-shaming every one that she sees. Pointing on others extra kilos makes her feel so beautiful. That hollow dead body !!

Such People might enjoy presenting their problems and catching some sympathy but  How is the discussion going to help when nobody even asking you about it? Why do even people listen to sad songs? Sad lyrics can make a smiling person frown. I might be too freaked up to tolerate so much negativity but is so much negative discussion even right? Negativity only passes and increase, never reduces.