When you are trying to push yourself into something which is just not meant to be for you , just like mixing oil into water, know this that you are being very hard to yourself. The quotes may say things like 'push yourself more when you decide to give up' and similar things that may sound brilliant but don't suit most situations. It's just so normal to not be perfect. You are anyway better than those who aren't even trying. It takes a lot to make decisions to quit, to give up, to take a break or to relax. There are times when you reach your saturation point beyond which is just harm, majorly mentally. Then at that time we have people around us who act like a pro in every situation. It's always very easy to advice someone because when someone comes to you with a problem they are into a maze, they are lost and can't decide ; While you with a bird's eye from the above have a view on how to get out of that maze. However when you are in a maze of your own you need an other person to take you out of it. A solution can only be suggested , a direction can only be shown but whether to walk that way is entirely your decision. If it suits it's great , if it doesn't then just don't impose it on yourself. We are already following the trends we are not supposed to. We are already jumping into fire even when we don't need to. We are constantly pushing our limits to a point that it starts to backfire. You don't talk to anyone more than you talk to yourself so be kinder with yourself.
