Wednesday 17 May 2017

Chaar Log Kya Kahenge ?

I always wanted to write about it. So frustrated and excited. This is not just a topic or a question , this is a dream killer sentence . I think of something to go for - I am very excited - my thought bubbles begin to form - CHAAR LOG KYA KAHENGE? Bubble burst ! Even if it doesn't bother you it will bother your family because they have a different bunch of chaar log EACH. It makes too many LOGs to bother over. I have always wondered (more times than thinking about what to eat) that who are exactly these people and what exactly do they say ? The "shut up!" from the parents come as "they who must not be named" types because even they don't know who says what.

By far the best social media post I have come across on Chaar Log is "the entire life you keep thinking Chaar Log kya kahenge and when you finally meet them they say "Ram Naam Satya Hai". Losers !! Can't even face us when we are alive.

Bloody why do these four people talk so much ? Maybe they are the bitchy aunties jo apna tummy expose karke crop top wali ladki ko judge karti hai. Maybe they are those uncles who are sitting idle and complain over the market conditions but are always ahead in suggesting business ideas. Maybe they are the wanna-be teens who are learning to apply eye liner or grow beard through You-Tube . Basically they are those relatives , friends , neighbors , classmates , colleagues , assholes , shit-butts , potty-mouth with the lowest self esteem that they try to mock others to lift themselves up. Genius , right ?

The fear is so strong that we also start to assume who can say what for which thing. The fear of being judged by those who never had the balls to take the risk actually kills the dreamers inside us. These people vanish in thin air after our success and then also they might not say anything good about us because remember "lifting themselves by putting you down"?

If you are in your early 20s the topic of marriage will obviously be there. As soon as a girl crosses 23 tension develops , she touches 24 it gets serious because "agle saal 25 ki ho jayegi , iski umar me mera ek beta hogaya tha". Most of us don't give a fuck. Even if any of us sacrifices herself then this is not the end by the way . You are at your marriage surrounded by unforgiving assholes who would still say the following things :
- venue kaafi door pad gaya huein
- khaana aiwayi hai
- non veg nahi rakhwaya ?
- look at the bride's makeup so cakey and what's she wearing ?
- the couple isn't so charming
- humein to barfi ka dabba dia , usko laddoo dedia
- the arrangement is not so khaas
- married in such a hurry, must be an affair

Shitting from their mouths all over while hogging in YOUR marriage from YOUR money about YOU. You can never please anyone chaahe chum-chum ka dabba dedo.

The fear of what others will say about us affects us because somewhere for someone we have also been one out of the four souls who's been so mean and judgmental. Think about it, I am making a really valid point here. On Social Media they are the ones who comment shit by hiding behind their computer screens. In real life they never face you. You never see them and so you never know. If you don't know then why bother ? Those Chaar Log would have their Chaar Log too :) . Don't judge , don't fear.